If you've ever thought, "I'm just not funny," and used it as a reason to keep humor out of your speaking, your leadership, or your life, this episode is your permission slip to think differently. Malcolm breaks down exactly how to find the humor that's already yours, and why the best laughs in any room never come from a written joke.
What You'll Hear
- The crucial difference between the comedy branch and the play branch of humor — and why mixing them up is what trips most speakers up
- Why authenticity and written jokes can't fully coexist, and what to reach for instead
- The two core elements to mine for genuine, audience-tested humor in any speech or story: emotions and dialogue
- Judy Carter's simple four-word shortcut for finding your funniest, most human moments: hard, weird, scary, or stupid
- The three types of dialogue — monologue, inner dialogue, and character dialogue — and how each one creates connection and earns laughs
- A live read of Malcolm's own Kansas City story: a broken ankle, a BMW, and the world's most reluctant musical
- Two practical first steps to building your humor foundation starting today: keep a humor journal and record yourself in conversation
Resources Mentioned on this Episode
- Episode 2 of The Lighten Up Project — "The Humor Tree," where Malcolm defines laughter and humor and introduces the humor family analogy
- Judy Carter — comedy teacher and author whose emotional framework ("hard, weird, scary, stupid") is referenced in this episode
- Find Your Funny Foundation™ — start uncovering your authentic humor style
- Learn more about Malcolm's work at the World Laughter Organizationâ„¢
Meet the Host: Malcolm Grissom
Malcolm Grissom, affectionately known as "The Stand-up C.E.O.," is a team-building and employee engagement expert. Malcolm, an award-winning actor, comedian, International speaker, and best-selling author, masterfully blends humor, improv, and business acumen to enhance team dynamics and profitability. As a certified laughter leader, he leverages the power of positive psychology and his social work background to create engaging, results-driven experiences. Whether inspiring executives, strengthening teams, or energizing audiences, Malcolm’s unique approach fosters connection, creativity, and success. His ability to transform corporate culture with humor and insight makes him a sought-after speaker and consultant.
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Website: malcolmgrissom.com
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LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/malcolmgrissom
Stressed, stuck, or leading on autopilot? It’s not a motivation problem—it’s a connection problem. Malcolm’s weekly virtual improv classes boost engagement, collaboration, and retention—all while having fun. Register now for a complimentary month: https://malcolmgrissom.thrivecart.com/everyday-encores/
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